tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-279550432012-02-07T11:50:01.088-08:00Den, a God's creation, a shelter of his own. From the outside, he looks calm, quiet, and agreeable. <a href="http://dtkng.blogspot.com/2006/05/whats-inside-den.html">What's inside the Den? ...</a>Denhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10668189848502711429noreply@blogger.comBlogger2921100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27955043.post-1200839258259676332011-08-18T00:00:00.003-07:002011-08-18T00:20:59.435-07:00

親愛的妻子： 我們結婚十年了！我不懂用說話去表達我對你的愛同感謝你對我的愛，所以在這結婚週年，我預備及編排了這些歌．希望你喜歡． 1. 有了你 我們的愛情並不是在十年前先開始，而是在十五年前，我就「有了你」在我的心中． 　有了你頓覺增加風趣 　我每日每天都想見你 　那懼風與雨 　那懼怕行雷 　見少一秒都空虛 2. 一生愛妳一個 你是我的第一個，願我「一生愛你一個」，也願你一生也愛我一個． 　喜歡你 　我最清楚這感覺 　從前妳是妳 　從前我是我 　．．． 　從前尋遍這天邊海角 　不經意等到 　心中愛情主角愛你一個 　像是浪漫愛歌 3. 每天愛你多一些 十年中，我每天都了解明白你多一些，我「每天愛你多一些」，將來也是如此． 　無求甚麼　無尋甚麼　突破天地 　但求夜深奔波以後　能望見你　

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問題少女與爸爸正在食晚飯當中，突然地．．． SaSa：我有冇Birthright？ 爸爸（不大聽清楚地）：乜野Bird fight啊？ SaSa：即係爸爸媽媽死左，我係唔係可以有晒你地所有錢？ 爸爸險些噴飯，心裏頓時出現了十幾廿個念頭： 究竟佢係邊到學返黎？ 唔通公公婆婆？ 唔通新時代電視？ 唔通Treehouse？ 佢咁講係唔係咒緊我死？ 佢咁問係唔係想做浪子回頭故事中的浪子？ 唔通佢唔想Share俾妹妹？ 唔通佢有心儀男仔問佢借錢？ 佢會唔會諗點樣爸爸媽媽會快D死？ 我又應該點回應好呢？ 唔通學上一輩咁星佢幾巴，鎖佢入房，面壁思過？ 定話話俾佢聽爸爸媽媽已經立了遺囑，冇得爭？ 定話要教佢點都要同妹妹Share？ 最終決定唔好反應咁快．．． 爸爸（詐傻扮懞，假裝溫柔地）：下？你再講多一次？ SaSa（好清楚地）：咁我出世先，大過妹妹，有Birthright，爸爸媽媽死左，

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In just a few days, Harmony is about to turn 1 year and a half old (18 months). In these 18 months, it's been a blessing to have such a content and 鬼馬 baby for us to take care, and it's also been a blessing to have SaSa, such a loving and understanding big sister. I've created a slideshow of photos, containing at least 2 photos (with SaSa) of each of Harmony's 18 months. Here is the slideshow

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For this month (around November), Harmony responded to and followed our instructions/actions/sounds better and better. She also showed that she could remember what she learnt. And her speaking skills improved a lot. Here were the updates of this month: She learnt to say 「開, please」, but most of the time, she just said 「開pp, sss」. 3 teeth were coming out! It's her #10-#12. She could follow a

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I didn't drop down much updates this month (around October) ... the noticable were Harmony walked pretty well, she's more playful, and she looked more and more like an toddler (except her size) than a baby. Here were some updates of this month: She said "sss" after saying 「果個」. It meant "yes", because usually after she said 「果個」, we would ask her 「邊過呀?」, then she would response "yes" without

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Well, this month marked the first month when Harmony could walk! Here are the updates: At the start of this month, she could finally stand without support, and she could also walk more than a few steps. At the end of this month, she could walk very well. Her teeth #9 (molar on upper jaw) came out, it's been a while since #8. She pointed to the things that she wanted and then knew how to say 「果個

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Since last fall (2009) and winter, the Chafer Beetle problem came to my lawns. If you don't know about this problem, here are a few good links that can give you some appetite:Text LinkVideo Link #1Video Link #2And if you are still hungry, you can easily find tons of links about this problem through Google.At first, if I remember correctly, there were just some small patches of grass in the

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The busy summer continued and Harmony's life at daycare continued. It's good that Harmony went to daycare during this summer, that made Loretta's life easier to bring SaSa to attend her summer classes. Harmony started to show her personality more and more, and interacted with us more and more. Especially this month, we both felt she grew a lot mentally and phyiscally. Comparing to SaSa at

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In exactly 2 months away, SaSa will be 5 years old! Just can't believe the time passed so quickly. Just a few blinks ago, she was just a baby learning to walk and talk like Harmony now does. And now, she's already in the kindergarten, going to Chinese and drawing classes, and she likes them very much. With the same number of blinks, she will be 10! Again, I shouldn't think too far ahead.

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It's been a busy summer. We took a lot of photos, so took me a while to sort them out before posting this. This month (July) marked another big change in Harmony's life -- she started going to daycare. As expected (based on our observation of her personality), she adjusted quite well within just 2 weeks. Thanks Auntie Grace and Uncle Daniel for their care once again! Here are some updates of

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以下對話其實在兩個幾月前世界盃進行期間發生．只不過沒有時間去打下來．就趁著英超、歐冠盃及歐洲國家盃剛開鑼，就將球迷（爸爸）與問題少女（SaSa）的對話打下登出來．由於事發在兩個幾月前，所以以下對話與真實情況可能有少許出入，但那些問題的而且確會出自這個問題少女．SaSa：（指著球證）果個橙色衫Uncle做咩野架？爸爸：佢係球證囉．SaSa：咩野係球證呀？爸爸：佢睇住踢緊波 D Uncle有冇犯規囉．SaSa：咩野係犯規呀？爸爸：例如有一個 Uncle用腳整低另一個 Uncle.SaSa：點解既？爸爸：因為佢唔想另一個 Uncle將個波帶去另一邊囉．SaSa：咁唔得架嘛！我地要學 Share，學 Take Turn架嘛.爸爸：咁佢地比賽緊，佢唔想另一個 Uncle將個波帶去另一邊，射入左佢個網度．SaSa：點解既？爸爸：因為如果另一個 Uncle射入左，另一個 Uncle就會贏，佢就會輸．

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Finally, got around to blog this ... Harmony is now 1 year old (and 20 days)! If you have been following this blog, then you will know it's been a quite blessed and easy year. It may be due to we are now more experienced and relax, but most of it are due to Harmony's is quite an easy and content baby. This is her month #12:Continued to voice out a lot of different sounds. I think she's now

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Harmony is now 11 months old! She's not a physically big baby. As I told L, SaSa still looked like a baby when she was 1, Harmony looks even more like a baby even she's almost 1 now. Despite that, I think she's both physically and emotionally normal as we see her improvements in the last few months. In her month 11, there were a lot changes:Continued to voice out a lot of different

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In just 1 more day, World Cup 2010 will begin. When I looked back my blog, I can't believe I had 16 blog posts about the World Cup 2006! Well now, with the 問題少女 and 悅姐, I don't think I have time and energy to follow this World Cup as close as before ... well, you never know. Anyway, here's my predictions on the group stages:Group A: South Africa, Mexico, Uruguay, FranceNo problem for Mexico to

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SaSa：點解我果邊支旗冇左既？（SaSa指的是在爸爸車上的加人隊旗）爸爸（心痛地）：因為爸爸鐘意果隊Hockey隊輸左囉．SaSa：點解輸左既？聽日會唔會贏架？爸爸（又心痛地）：聽日唔會贏架喇．佢地打完喇．無得再打喇．SaSa：點解既？爸爸（更加心痛地）：因為佢地輸得太多囉．SaSa：點解佢地輸得太多既？爸爸（再心痛地）：因為佢地打得唔好囉．SaSa：點解佢地打得唔好既？爸爸（心在痛哭地）：因為第二隊打得好 D 囉．SaSa：邊隊呀？爸爸（極之心痛地）：芝加哥隊．SaSa：芝加哥隊？爸爸（自我安慰地）：唔緊要架，下年佢地會再打過既！SaSa（充滿希望地）：係咪可以掛四支旗？爸爸（不用理智地）：係呀！我地下年應該會掛到四支旗架！

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As of today, Harmony is now 10.5 months old. She is much more mobile and can reach to a lot of places. When she spots where the fun (whatever SaSa is playing) is or where the crowd is, she just moves herself happily toword her targets with ease. Here are some "hilights" of Harmony in her Month #10:Continued to voice out a lot of different sounds.Showed and voiced out excitement when SaSa was

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In 2 days, Harmony will be 10 months old! Just 2 more months, she will turn 1! What a year full of blessing! Each day I can't stop myself from thanking God for giving us such angel (and also SaSa) to take care. This post is to recapture her progress of her Month #9. Month #10 will be posted shortly after. She ...Could crawl forward with no problem. However, she was just using her hands (

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Well, not bad, 6 out of 8 are correct in this year crazy playoff. Who could predict 3 upsets in the East, but no upset in the West at all. Here is the prediction on next 3 rounds based on the actual 1st round result:Conference Semis: San Jose Sharks (1) vs Detroit Red Wings (5).Wings showed what they could do in Game 7 vs Coyotes. Times up again for Sharks. The big guys of Sharks again will

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Here are the rest of my predictions based on my predictions in part 1. It won't count against my record, though. :)Conference Semis: San Jose Sharks (1) vs Detroit Red Wings (5).Times up again for Sharks. Red Wings in 6. Chicago Blackhawks (2) vs Vancouver Canucks (3)Even the Hawks are banged up from the first round, but their speed will continue to kill Canucks' slow defense.Blackhawks in 5.

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(註：請見諒因要保全原本對話的全神，所以用詞不太文雅)SaSa（指著爸爸車上既雀屎）：咩黎架？爸爸：雀雀既屎囉．SaSa：佢點樣疴左落架車度架？爸爸：佢飛飛下就疴左落架車度囉．SaSa：點解既？爸爸：咁雀雀食完野，係爸爸車上面飛過，又要疴唔唔，咁咪疴左落爸爸架車度囉．SaSa：咁唔得架嘛，佢急就要去廁所疴嘛．佢爸爸媽媽冇教佢既咩？爸爸：雀雀冇廁所果喎．SaSa：咁佢要唔要落地獄呀？爸爸：點解既？SaSa：咁佢曳曳，冇聽爸爸媽媽話，冇忍住，四圍疴唔唔．爸爸：佢唔係曳曳，雀雀冇廁所去疴嘛．SaSa：咁佢要忍住飛到樹先疴嘛．爸爸：神造雀雀就係直腸直肚，食完就會疴嘛．SaSa：咁雀雀死左係咪有D上天堂，有D落地獄呀？爸爸：爸爸都唔清楚呀．但我估全部雀雀都會上天堂既．SaSa：唔係喎，曳曳既雀雀，四圍疴唔唔既雀雀要落地獄果喎！爸爸：．．．

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Well, it's the time of the year again, when I'm going to make some predictions for this year NHL playoff. Honestly, this year, I stayed away from TV, newspapers, radio, and internet on Canucks as much as I could -- not because of the little one, but I didn't want to ride the emotional wave up and down all season long. At the end, the post season is the only thing matters. As a result, I'm not

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最近有感而發，這是我希望（但不知夠不夠勇氣）與父母（包括外父外母）的禱告．．．親愛既主，感謝你！感謝你俾我地有父母，俾我地有兒女．主啊，求你寬恕我地，因為我地每一個，包括孩兒自己，都係一個罪人，都係一個自私自我中心既人．主啊，你教導我地要孝順父母，但係我地有時欠缺了聆聽同平靜既心，而頂撞了父母，主啊，對唔住．主啊，你教導我地要好好管理教導你俾我地既兒女，但係我地有時欠缺了了解同忍耐的心，而用了過份的語氣鬧了他們，主啊，對唔住．主啊，求你幫助我地，求你醫治我地，因為我地每一個，包括孩兒自己，都有著上一代帶來既包伏，帶來既傷痕．我地有時有意無意地亦將呢的包伏同呢的既傷痕帶給我地既下一代．求你教導我地點樣將呢的包伏放低俾你，讓我地能全心全身地以你既愛，愛我地既兒女，以你既教導，教導我地既兒女，以你對我地既期望，作為我地對兒女的期望．主啊，求你俾我地睇清楚自己既不足同軟弱，時刻向你支取安慰、力量

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Finally, caught up with the latest month of Harmony. In this month, she:Could voice out her 3rd sound: "Ba". Of course, not directly to me yet.Had her first (She might be sick before in her early months, but we did not see any clear symtons) sickness. She had fever for a couple days, then running nose for a couple days, and then some minor mucus in her throat for a few days more. Thanks God

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Just couldn't believe Harmony is now 7 months old. 5 more months, she would be 1 year old -- could be standing up and walking around ... okay ... I should not think too far ahead myself. The past 7 months was really a blessing, as she was such a content baby. Beside her low milk intake, she's very easy to be taken care of. She looked more playful than SaSa at around the same age. We will see

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Well, Harmony is already 8 months old (in her 9th month). I haven't posted any blog updates on her since her 20 weeks. Well, in case you wonder, she has changed a lot since. Like what I did for SaSa, let me recap on her progress month by month. In her 6th month, she:could now roll over back to front, and front to back. She already could do the back to front rolling (i.e. back on the floor to

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Well, it's been quite a while since my last update in this blog. Too busy? Not really -- just some higher priority items on my todo list that kept me from putting my focus on minor things. There's something about myself that I learned and finally could find the words to describe it ... For years, I know I'm a last-minute person - I tend to procrastinate. However, I still got things done - at

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Harmony is now 20 weeks old! In the last month and half, She's still a very content baby -- only cry a bit when we try to feed her bottle or when we put her onto the bed for the night.She's still like to be put down and talked with, whether be held.She did try to roll over, but still couldn't. She still liked to lie still on the ground.She slept well, but didn't eat well, so her growth was a

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在大約兩星期前教會的AGM中，PC（陳牧師）宣佈退任．起初當然對這件事感到突然，但其實從與他一起事奉當中，他的退任或退休並非是意料之外，只不過覺得早了些少．在認識PC開始幾年中，對他的印象不是太好，可能是因為對他講道的方式很難有領受，亦可能因為對他在教會一些問題的處事方法並不認同或並不了解，亦可能因為自己那時還是一個血氣方剛、乳臭未乾的年青人．．．但當與PC一起事奉多了，自己事奉多了、接觸層面廣了、思想和經驗都成熟了，就體會到「作為一個幾百人教會的牧師並不容易，作為一個幾百華人教會的牧師就更加難，作為一個幾百華人傳統教會的牧師就難上加難」．聲音很多、顧慮很多、掣肘亦很多．我開始明白、體會、體諒或欣賞PC的處事方法．我亦從他這方面上學了不少功課．我亦相信PC在這十幾年作為RCAC的主任牧師中亦學了不少功課，改變了不少．老實的說，PC的強處並不是在講台上講道．或者應該是這麼說：PC

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Harmony is now 3 months old. She is still a very easy-going baby. She can now sleep over the night (10p to 8a). She prefers sleeping more than eating -- especially during evening, she's very cranky after 8p, and only smile again after being put on her bed. She now prefers her thumb or hand than pacifier -- which sometimes is good, since she can sooth herself back to sleep without waking us up

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問題少女SaSa繼問了一些終極問題同一些超越時空既問題之後，就問了好多關於生老病死既問題．生SaSa：點解我大個妹妹既?爸爸：因為你出世先囉．SaSa：點解唔係妹妹出世先既?爸爸：因為神安排你出世先囉．SaSa：點解神唔安排妹妹出世先既?爸爸：咁你要問神先知喇！SaSa：點解出世先叫家姐，出世後叫妹妹既?爸爸：因為係咁叫囉！老SaSa：點解爸爸媽媽會老既？爸爸：因為人既年紀會越嚟越嚟大囉．SaSa：咁我幾時老呀？爸爸：你仲有好多年先叫老．SaSa：幾多年呀？爸爸：50年啦．SaSa：點解老左面會有一點點既，頭髪會白色既？爸爸：因為我地身體會退化囉．SaSa：我唔想爸爸老喎，因為我唔想見到你面有一點點，頭髪白色喎．爸爸：咁我地要祈求神喎．SaSa：謝謝天父，爸爸唔會老，面唔會有一點點，頭髪唔會白色，奉主名求，阿們．病SaSa：點解我地會病既？爸爸：因為有細菌入咗我地既身體囉．SaSa：

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In fewer than 3 months away, Elisha will be 4 years old! In just a few more blinks away, she will be 18 ... okay, I shouldn't think that far ahead. Let me enjoy the current moments. In the past 3 months, there were a lot of changes, not just SaSa herself, but around her.From getting her first bike, end of the school year, to playing in playgrounds a lot of times ...And then enjoying her first

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Harmony is now 2 months old. Comparing to the 1st month, the 2nd month was much easier. She's been growing steadily -- no huge jump in weight. She's more alert and responsive. She loved you talking to her more than you holding her. She could sleep without feeding between 10p to 5a, and could sleep a couple hours more after the 5a feeding. She refluxed less and less, but could still spill

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Due to great response from the last post on who does Harmony look like, let me do a couple more SaSa and Harmony side by side. They look alike, but you can certainly tell some differences:

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Harmony is now a bit more than 7 days old! So far, she's quite an easy baby -- eat, sleep, and poop all the times. With past experience with SaSa, L and I are more relaxed this time. Moreover, L's milk supply seems to be better this time around. As a result, Harmony was quite satisfied after each feeding, and went back to sleep fast. SaSa is behaving well as a big sister too. She likes to

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Who does Harmony look like? There's no easy answer. Some say me and some say Loretta. Quite a few people say SaSa. As a result, I tried to do a side by side. Here is the day 1 comparison:Does Harmony look like SaSa?

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問題少女 SaSa 雖然對時間仍然處有很多疑問，但比起半年前已有很大的進步．當然有時候，問題少女會問一些超越時空規律的問題：例一：SaSa見到份新玩具：我想玩喎，爸爸可唔可以幫我開？爸爸：呢份我地遲D先開嚟玩．SaSa：點解既？爸爸：因為你已經有好多玩具玩喇，呢份遲D先開啦．SaSa：係唔係今日呀？爸爸：係遲D．SaSa：係唔係聽日呀？爸爸：係聽日既聽日既聽日啦．SaSa：今日係唔係聽日呀？例二：SaSa一朝早六點鐘醒咗，大叫：爸爸．爸爸睡眼惺忪地：嘩，六點鐘至喎，再瞓多一陣啦．SaSa擰頭．爸爸：你平時八點幾先起身架，瞓多一陣啦．SaSa繼續擰頭．爸爸：咁你等爸爸擦完牙，洗完面，同你起身啦．SaSa：好呀！正當爸爸去擦牙洗面之際，SaSa將自己的鐘較前．SaSa：而家係唔係八點幾呀？例三：SaSa：今日我地做咩？爸爸：而家咁夜，我地玩多一陣就要瞓覺喇．SaSa：瞓醒之後我地做咩？爸爸：

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SaSa is now 3 and a half years old. She speaks more and more, asks more and more, and does a lot of role playing when she plays. Her current favorite phrase is "唔係呀！．．．". I am still gathering some good examples of this phrase for another post.Finally got time to update the photo albums. Here are photos of her in the past 3 months.

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在最近半年，我讓SaSa拿著我的相機，用她的角度拍下一些相片．根據相片質數，以往我必定將相片删去．但見她拍得有模有樣，而且真是對著一些事物去拍下，所以決定將這些相片留下．這是她近半年的專輯．由於是在Auto mode中不用閃光燈拍，加上手仔還未控制得好，所以相片較為模糊　－　也證明了這些相片是出於她手的．

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Can't believe yesterday was my 10 Years Anniversary working in my current company. I didn't think I would last this long when I started, and I didn't even think the company would last this long too. As long as it's stable, provide me a stable income and flexibility in working hours, stay in Richmond, give me opportunities to learn and use new stuff, and of course provide me a nearby parking

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問題少女SaSa以前好鍾意用「既」字加在句子的尾發問她的問題．最近佢開始多了用「邊個」、「點解」同「乜野」．例一：SaSa：乜野係Penalty呀？爸爸：Penalty咪係犯規囉．SaSa：乜野係犯規呀？爸爸：既係Uncle曳曳囉．SaSa：邊個Uncle呀？爸爸：打Hockey個Uncle囉．SaSa：邊個打Hockey個Uncle呀？爸爸：電視果個打緊Hockey個Uncle囉．SaSa：點解佢曳曳呀？爸爸：因為佢用支Stick抅人囉．SaSa：點解佢用支Stick抅人呀？．．．例二：爸爸：嘩，你睇吓，你食到成身都係．SaSa：邊個成身都係呀？爸爸：你囉．SaSa：點解既？爸爸：你唔小心囉．SaSa：邊個呀？爸爸：你囉．SaSa：食乜野呀？爸爸：食餅餅囉．SaSa：點解既？爸爸：點解乜野呀？SaSa就在此時，問了一條相信世上無人能答到的問題...SaSa：點解係點解既？

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Finally, the 1st round is finished, and I'm 7 out of 8! Very good, and I'm glad to miss that one (Sharks). Conference Semis: Detroit Red Wings (2) vs Anaheim Ducks (8).Ducks should give Wings a run and body-damages ... Wings are just too skillful, playoff-proven for Ducks. Wings in 6. Vancouver Canucks (3) vs Chicago Blackhawks (4)I don't think this will be a rollover as some predicted. I

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SaSa很喜歡砌珠仔，一粒一粒的將珠仔放在版上．爸爸媽媽好多時都與她一人一塊版砌．有一天，SaSa看見爸爸砌緊的那一塊版，突然有這反應：SaSa：嘩！爸爸，你砌得好有型！爸爸萬估不到SaSa有這反應，而且識用「有型」這兩個字，當堂笑到碌地．爸爸媽媽相信「有型」這兩個字是SaSa從公公婆婆有意或無意地學返來．爸爸從地上坐番起身．媽媽：SaSa，咁媽媽果塊有唔有型？SaSa：有型．媽媽：咁爸爸果塊有型D，定話媽媽果塊有型D？SaSa：爸爸果塊．正當爸爸滿懷喜悅之際．．．SaSa：爸爸你碌地啦．爸爸又估不到SaSa有這反應，當堂再次笑到碌地．爸爸再次從地上坐番起身．SaSa：爸爸，你砌得好有型！你碌地啦．爸爸：爸爸笑完喇，唔碌喇．SaSa就自己扮爸爸碌地在大笑．

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SaSa loves animals ... I guess most of the kids do too. From Ah Lou (Tommy's guide dog), to Max (Madeline's cat), to Mo Mo (Uncle 5's dog in HK), to Starsky and Hutch (Auntie 7's cats), to sheeps in petting zoos, and to birds/ducks on the ground, they were all petted and/or chased by SaSa. So far she hasn't had any bad experience with them ... I guess that's 1 of the reasons why she's not

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Just some quick thoughts after all series have gone at least 3 games ...West:- Surprise: Ducks won 2 away games against Sharks. Should never pick Sharks again. Who's that Hiller? Really scare of Ducks -- but still want them to upset;- On Track: Experience shows: Wings are going to sweep;- Surprise and Happy: Canucks swept!!!!! But worry this will throw off Luongo's game with a long rest like

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Here are the rest of my predictions based on my predictions in part 1. It won't count against my record, though. :)Conference Semis: San Jose Sharks (1) vs Chicago Blackhawks (4).If Sharks can get past Ducks, they should have no problem in getting past Blackhawks.Sharks in 5. Detroit Red Wings (2) vs Vancouver Canucks (3)This is the benefit of winning the NW division, since Canucks can face

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2 years ago, I blogged my predictions on NHL playoff. I didn't do it last year, since Canucks didn't make it. Now, as a bandwagon fan myself, let me blog my predictions once again. My record was 6/8 in the 1st round, 2/4 in the 2nd round, and 1/3 in the finals. Let me see if I can be better this time around. The teams hi-lighted in BLUE are the ones I predict as the winner of the series:Western

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SaSa是一個問題少女．她並不是身體上或心理上有問題，而是她有好多問題．她還未是那種每事問的小朋友，但她會執著一件事，重複地問完又問．例如：她看見故事中有一位哥哥在喊，SaSa：佢喊既？爸爸：係呀，佢唔開心囉．SaSa：佢唔開心既？爸爸：因為佢唔見咗玩具，所以佢唔開心囉．SaSa：邊過唔開心呀？爸爸：咪哥哥囉．SaSa：邊過哥哥呀？爸爸（開始不耐煩）：咪故事個哥哥囉．SaSa：佢喊既？爸爸頭頂開始見到煙．．．其實，爸爸心知SaSa是一個好聰明，而且理解力及創作力甚高的小朋友，所以係呢個moment...爸爸：點解？SaSa：因為佢唔開心囉．爸爸：點解？SaSa：因為佢唔見咗玩具囉．爸爸：點解？SaSa：因為佢玩完冇cleanup，所以唔見咗囉．爸爸：係囉，你都知道，就唔使重複又重複咁問囉．SaSa（偌明所意）：哥哥唔見咗乜野玩具呀？．．．這是 second round 的開始．．．

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彤彤同SaSa都係個三歲幾，天真活潑的小朋友．有一日在團契，佢地一齊揭一本和合本聖經，欣賞當中的圖畫．當揭到以弗所書，睇到一幅有幾個士兵的圖畫時．．．Sa爸問：呢 D 係咩？SaSa：兵兵．彤彤：呢 D 兵兵曳曳．Sa爸（本來想更正這些兵唔係曳曳，只是著住全副軍裝．但有興趣聽下呢兩個小朋友既諗法）：點解呢 D 兵兵曳曳？SaSa：因為佢釘耶穌係十字架．彤彤：係呀，耶穌跟住死在．SaSa 豎起三隻手指：跟住佢三日後復活．Sa爸頓時「老懷安慰」，總算他們記得平日所學的福音．當彤彤剛行開後，SaSa繼續佢每事問的本領．SaSa：佢要釘耶穌係十字架既？Sa爸（以反問去考考SaSa）：點解既？SaSa：因為耶穌曳曳．Sa爸（額頭出了冷汗）：唔係耶穌曳曳，係因為我地曳曳．SaSa：耶穌唔曳曳既？Sa爸：點解既？SaSa：因為佢係神．Sa爸頓時再「老懷安慰」：係呀，耶穌係神，所以佢唔會曳曳．（Sa

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Finally, I got around to post this. The puzzle was actually finished about a month ago. In the past month, we managed to finish another 1000 piece, and 2 550 pieces. The 1000 piece is much easier -- took us just 2-3 days.Day 15: I worked on the leaves on the trees ... slowly piece by piece matching any special shape.Day 16: I completed the tree leaves, and started to work on the grass.Day 17:

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當發現BB有問題後，及在ultrasound中看見這個生命後，就很想快些為她改名．因為我覺得每一個生命都應該有一個名字，而且在禱告上可以直接地及親切地用她的名字去求告神．在為SaSa改名的時候，其實已經預備了一個男仔名：「天諾」和 Ethan，但未預備第二個女仔名．當Amnio test的quick report出了後，知道這BB亦是一個女仔（這次應該是相當準確的，所以我們不介意告訴其他人BB的性別），就開始最後的抉擇．結果，除了繼續用「天」字作為中字，今次用了「悅」字作為尾字，意謂「喜悅」．因為我心理上其實已預備她可能不能夠健康出世，若是與否，我都願意獻上她、獻上今次見歷，作神所喜悅的祭．而且我希望她出世後，若身體上有什麼缺陷，我們一家與她都能以勇敢的心以喜樂的心去面對．她的中文名有這樣的意思：願她天天都開開心心，天天作神所喜悅的事，天上的天軍天使都因她而喜悅．至於英文名，

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I like to do jigsaw puzzles. Based on my fading memory, I didn't quite remember when I started to like it. The first major one (500 pieces) that I remember was a Donald Duck with white background. Since then to 3 years ago, the most pieces I'd done was 1500 pieces. Over the years of "puzzling", I have gathered some tips and tricks to put the pieces together easier and faster.0. You have to

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經過兩次改名過程，真的發覺並不是容易－－正所謂「不怕生壞命，最怕改壞名」．再加上本姓「吳」，本來是一個幾好的名字，加上「吳」字，就變成另一意思：如「美麗」變成「吳美麗」．還有「吳健康」、「吳廣德」、「吳浩昌」、「吳曉婷」．．．搞笑例子真的數之不盡．單字就更糟糕：「吳大吳細」、「吳三吳四」、「吳上吳落」、「吳廣吳德」．．．「吳」音近「吾」，有「我的」意思．所以我爸爸用了「子」作為中字，我和K的名字就解為「我的兒子強壯」和「我的兒子健康」．雖然簡單，但有意思，亦難被取笑．所以在為SaSa改名的時候，亦藉此為鑑．結果用了「天」作為中字，帶有「我的天」的意思．而用了「詠」作為尾字，意謂「歌頌」．所以SaSa的中文名有這樣的意思：願她天天都歌頌神，天上的天軍天使都與她一同歌唱．至於英文名，較為容易．聖經雖有不少女姓的名字，但能容易讀、又不普遍、又沒有近親朋用，所餘無幾．結果用了男先知以利沙的英文名

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After getting most of the easy parts completed in the first week, it's getting tougher and tougher in this second week.Day 8: SaSa seemed to lose her interest in the puzzle already. She prefered to watch "Math Circus" DVD ... everyday this week. I almost completed the main tree trunk.Day 9: I worked on the branches of the main tree ... piece by piece. As you can see, the progress was even

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A bit more than a week ago, we started to work on a 2000 pieces puzzle that we bought in HK last year. This is our 2nd 2000 pieces. Our 1st is a Mickey Mouse and friends playing a band at New Orleans. We did that one while L's pregnant with SaSa. This one is Winnie the Pooh and friends doing a picnic. As you see the pic below, there are lots of green -- much more difficult than the first one

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在未信的人眼中，這次結果可能是幸運．在疑心大的人眼中，這次結果可能是起初人為的錯誤．在相信神的人眼中，這次結果是一個神蹟，神的恩典．在未信的人眼中，這次經歷是虛驚一場．在疑心大的人眼中，這次經歷是證明醫生不可信．在相信神的人眼中，這次經歷是學習順服，學習禱告，學習等待．在未信的人眼中，將來需要更多的運氣．在疑心大的人眼中，將來要對人有更多的質疑．在相信神的人眼中，將來仍有神的帶領和看顧．

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Early this year, London has buses running with this slogan "There's probably no God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life." Now, this slogan may be coming to Toronto and Vancouver.As a Christian myself, I actually don't feel offended by this slogan, and am perfectly fine for having this slogan put in public display. However, I encourage everyone, that sees this slogan, should think about what

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在過去的等待中，不斷反思自己是一個怎樣的人．是一個悲觀的人嗎？我相信不是，因我深信神在當中的保守及帶領．是一個樂觀的人嗎？我覺得自己又未至於是．雖然口中認為一切會正常，但心中已作了壞打算．是一個期望低的人嗎？我覺得不是，因我祈求神施展祂的大能同大愛，給與神蹟．是一個期望高的人嗎？我覺得又不是．雖然祈求神蹟，但只敢祈求一切平安，不敢祈求完全的健康．之前已知自己是一個除遇而安的人，但在這次等待中，發覺自己原來亦是一個害怕失望的人．正所謂希望越高，失望越大．所以從不敢將對人，對自己，甚至對神的期望放得太高 ... 若事比期望中好，會很開心；若事只達到期望，亦不會太過失望．心並不是不相信神的大能，並不是不相信禱告的果效，我只是害怕失望．求神寬恕，求神繼續帶領．感謝你．

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在這些憂慮的日子中，感謝神有SaSa在我們當中，因為她為我們帶來不少歡樂：

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尋日突然記起在最近翻看的電影「Good Will Hunting」其中一段對白：Sean (the psychologist, acted by Robin Williams) said these to Will (the genius, acted by Matt Damon): "If I asked you about art, you'd probably give me the skinny on every art book ever written. Michelangelo, you know a lot about him. Life's work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientations, the whole works, right? But I'll bet you can't

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自從向外間分享挑戰後，就發現原來身邊有很多朋友都曾有著類同的經歷．這對我們是一個很大的鼓勵同安慰．他們有些願意向外分享，亦有些只願與至親朋分享．我們選擇這麼早就與弟兄姊妹分享，因我們相信禱告，相信神必聆聽禱告．我們亦希望我們這次挑戰亦成為將來對其他弟兄姊妹的鼓勵及安慰．

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「機會率」的存在是因為世上不是所要事情都是百份百．今天聽了不少、思想了不少「機會率」．有50至70的「機會率」，胎兒是有染色體的特異．而其中有很大的「機會率」，胎兒是會有Down Syndrome或Turner Syndrome；在餘下30-50的「機會率」，有很大的「機會率」胎兒是會有心臟缺憾；在餘下很少的「機會率」中，有很大的「機會率」胎兒在出生後是會有不同的毛病；只有很少的，但是有的「機會率」，胎兒是正常健康的出世；有90的「機會率」，胎兒不會順利出生．．．面對著這些「機會率」，L哭了不少次，我雖然並沒有太大的反應，但心不禁沉了下去．雙方的父母以母身安全的理由，將餘下的「機會率」也放棄了．在神當中並沒有「機會率」，因他是百份百．百份百的真，百份百是生命的主，百份百的看顧，百份百的仁愛，百份百的救贖．今天在照超聲波之時，讓我百份百的看到胎兒是一個百份百的生命，

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一個障礙的出現，神卻藉另一個障礙（大雪）讓我們能安適在家中學習靜心等候．我們真的沒有什麼能作，唯有祈禱，將生命交上，靜心等候下一步的指示．就算我們真的有事可作，若不能靜心，若不去祈禱，又怎能有力作得成，又怎知這是神的路？明天將如可，誰也不知道，但我們知誰掌管明天，誰會牽我們的手渡過．

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起初能行上這條路，是神真的計劃、恩典？還只是神對我們的容讓？當一個障礙在路上出現，這是神對我們的試練嗎？還是對我們要停的啟示？要用理智的角度去解決，還是用情感的力量去交託？要繼續前行，還是暫時終止？唯有相信神，祈求神前路的帶領．開始錯了，就求神安全帶回正路，亦醫治創傷．若是試練，就求神加力讓我們繼續踏上，隨遇而安．頭腦理智的相信，讓我們的心也相信．心裏情感的混亂，讓我們有智慧去安慰．「你將生命和慈愛賜給我、你也眷顧保全我的心靈。」－　約伯記10:12

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當媽媽有了BB，將做姐姐或哥哥的小朋友會開始感受到轉變．媽媽可能會不適，或很疲倦，亦不能抱小朋友太多．．．身邊的大人們就好熱烈地將要做大姐姐或大哥哥的責任不斷的灌輸在小朋友身上．經歷這些突然其來的轉變，對一個小朋友來說，會產生不安全的感覺．因此更想黐住媽媽．大人們看到小朋友的反應，不明白的，就會話小朋友與還未出世的BB爭寵．他們會更加教導小朋友不要爭寵，不要黐住媽媽．．．小朋友就更沒有安全感，更想黐住媽媽．教導當然是要教導，灌輸當然是要灌輸．但要人明白必需先明白人，小朋友也是如此．尚且，能夠教導的時間多的是，有形的教導俾無形的更令人較容易明白同接受，小朋友也是如此．最後，單是責任的加上，而沒有樂趣的調和，只會令人對事反感，小朋友也是如此．小朋友固然有功課要學，大人們也都有．

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婆婆除了很喜歡抱SaSa，她還很喜歡餵SaSa．SaSa其實自己識自己餵自己，只不過食得不是很快，或有時見到不太鐘意食的食物，會有少許扭計．較為心急的婆婆常常等不住，或按不住能夠餵孫的心情，而不問自發地餵SaSa．若我與L不在，婆婆更肆無忌憚地將整餐飯由頭到尾餵完．SaSa當然不介意俾人服事．每一次我與L叫婆婆不要再餵，每一次婆婆都會有佢認為既原因．最近有一個原因都令我與L訝口無言，對望苦笑：食得咁慢，飯凍了，營養就會少了，所以SaSa食極都食唔大．

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SaSa 突然地：爸爸唔好望住SaSa．爸爸：爸爸都冇望住你．在好奇心驅使下，爸爸偷偷地望住SaSa．原來就發現SaSa做緊一些佢知道爸爸見到佢做會話佢既動作（如挖鼻，玩口水）．我地又何不像SaSa．有時希望神不知鬼不覺地做神不喜悅的事，其實神又點會睇唔到！

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尋日：曾經發生過，無論係年幾前既事，或者真係尋日發生過既事，例如：我地尋日返香港．我尋日係Auntie Grace做過．而家：現在，即刻，例如：我而家要睇Tree House．我而家要食蛋撻．遲D：不是現在，可能是今日，有些事是希望不會發生，例如：我遲D 先番Preschool．我遲D 先食飯；但亦有些事是希望會發生，例如：爸爸遲D 同我玩呢個玩果個．聽日：不是今日，亦不是聽日，而又是希望不會發生，例如：我聽日先食菜．我聽日先沖涼．

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Here are the links of albums containing photos of this HK trip:SaSa related:Elisha's Month 35Elisha's Month 36Special Places:Disneyland Ocean ParkFamily related:Loretta's Father 70th Birthday DinnerWedding Day of Louisa and KuenLo Family DinnerFriends related:QESFriends and RelativesMisc:Misc

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香港是一個交通很方便的城市，方便到可以不用駕自己車．反而，駕自己車又昂貴，又非常不便　－　要行一段路才去到泊車之處，在路上又塞車又要懂得攝位，去到目的地要搵位泊車，可能要泊得很遠．香港還有一樣不便之處，就是推著BB車，或輪椅．地上已經路窄人多，很難穿右插；MTR每站多數只有一個出口有Elevator，一個較寬闊的閘口，往往與目的地相差甚遠；上落巴士、小巴等，除了要趕緊收車外，司機多數不等你坐定就急速開車；商場的Elevator人多有窄．．．

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香港的而且確是有很多很多人．我一日在銅鑼灣所見的人數（不計重復）而比我在溫哥華十年（計埋重復）所多幾百倍．雖然這樣多人在街擦身而過，但每人心中都好似有著自己既目標，完全不理會旁人，左衝右避，用最快的步伐去到達目的地．有不少人的眼神是帶著疲乏同迷茫；亦有不少人在談話，但只是對著自己的手機講；有很多人派單張或行乞，但伸出援手的是那麼的少．這麼近，但那麼遠．．．

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今次係香港，陪SaSa睇了不少的在香港播出的卡通．雖然有多過台選擇：無線、明珠、兒童台及Bommerang等，但發覺所播出的卡通比起在溫哥華Treehouse台的卡通，較多不良意識，如暴力、偷竊、惡勢力．．．令到SaSa有好多疑問，亦令陪太子睇電視的大人難以對答．有些更令SaSa嚷著要睇第二個．心想：其實以前我細個在香港睇的卡通同SaSa現在睇的不徨多讓，幸好沒有變得多壞．難怪在香港長大的孩子比起其他更老積．

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在銅鑼灣，乜野鋪頭梗有一間係左間？7-11？錯！我行咁耐，只係見過兩間．是Sasa也！不是SaSa，而是化妝品店Sasa！我行一個圈，只少見到五間Sasa！

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SaSa：婆．．．婆婆：係唔係要婆婆抱啊？SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa：波．．．婆婆：哦，要婆婆抱！SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa：飽．．．婆婆：係呀，要婆婆抱呀！SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa 舉起手要High Five．．．婆婆：好呀，婆婆抱！SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa 瞓在Sofa上玩婆婆：SaSa 累喇，等婆婆抱！SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa 望一望婆婆婆婆：你真係好痴婆婆，婆婆抱！SaSa 還未回答，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起．－－－－－SaSa 自己在地上玩婆婆望著電視SaSa 還未說話還未有眼色，婆婆已經將SaSa抱起，還抱足十分鐘．－－－－－人多，車多，地下污穢，上落樓梯．．．婆婆都自動自覺地想將SaSa抱起．

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香港人其實功夫底子十分好．無論在地鐡或巴士都不斷在鍛鍊自己的平衡力．沒有好的馬步，根本難以站立得穩．幾日前，曾經在一專線巴士上要企足全程，一手抱著SaSa，第二隻手要在人縫中爪梗扶手．司機轉左或轉右時，或開車停車時，都要步法正確，身位又不能太過倚偎著旁邊企著的人．

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香港其中一個怪現象，就是到處都是有關於手機．街頭街尾既電子舖，梗有最少三份一舖位展示出最新款既手機．係商場內的電子舖，一入門口就是手機櫃．手機林林總總，多不勝數，好似女仕化裝品一樣．在街的中間，就有些人坐著櫈子，擺著一個招牌話可以高價回收手機．在街上行走的人，十個中有三個以上都是用梗手機通話或短訊．有些就好似傻佬傻婆咁望著空氣自言自語（其實佢地用梗藍芽耳筒）．總之，人人無新機不歡，出了三個月既手機已算舊，半年都未換就是稀有動物，成年都係那部手機就會俾人話你係阿公阿婆．這一切簡直係一個奇景．

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可能最近很多人講環保，所以今次返香港都有戴著環保的觸角．以香港這數百萬人的城市中，一日所棄置的廢物極之多．特別香港大部份人的家都很細，不能容納太多東西，所以用完就會扔走．大部份的大厦和商場都沒有分類垃圾的裝置，所以如果收垃圾的沒有將垃圾分類，所有紙張、膠樽、鋁鑵、玻璃等等都混在一起扔走．我不知香港政府有沒有加強環保的政策．從市面可見，還有很多功夫可以做得更好．這亦可是一個商業的機會．當然在這經濟低迷的環境底下，誰有心情及花錢去搞環保？

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在香港這個石屎森林，車來車往，人來人往的都市中原來還有一點綠色．

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香港人有一個習慣，就是去酒樓飲荼時，首先一定將筷子、杯同碗碟用熱水或茶沖洗一次，因為覺得酒樓廚房洗唔乾淨．酒樓有見及此，預備一個大碗俾茶客將洗完的水倒去．我覺得這是一個惡性循環：因為茶客會自己洗，有些酒樓索性不將碗碟洗得完全乾淨，茶客亦因而繼續自己洗．酒樓可以省去不少人工同水費．．．

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昨晚在大約在放工時間要從上環返回銅鑼灣，就趁著機會影下一些放工時間的情景：金鐘站內金鐘站內崇光外崇光外崇光外渣旬坊時代廣場外

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敬二少奶：史諾比正在香港召集大軍，養精蓄銳，準備返加與朗拿度大戰一舊二舊！現已有三大搖頭將軍，同56個精勇麥記士兵．堅持到底啊！我地返梗黎啊！大少，大少奶上．

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在銅鑼灣長大，每次回港都在銅鑼灣居住，但這麼多年都沒有將所見的景色留下來．於是，在這星期日，在眾人忙於購物之時，我就拿著相機將一些情景拍攝下來：月華大厦，三妹報紙檔新利舞台時代廣場外時代廣場外時代廣場旁波斯富街附近街市情景大蝦大閘蟹賣肉鋪蜆海鮮渣甸仿崇光外崇光外誰的粉絲？誰的粉絲？陳奕迅也

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爸爸：我地今日坐地鐡！SaSa：我要滑滑梯！爸爸：我地坐 MTR 去探三姑喎．SaSa：我要打扦揪！爸爸：我地坐 Thomas the Train　喎．SaSa：好啊！我地坐 Thomas a Train 去滑滑梯同打扦揪！爸爸：．．．

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當第一晚返到香港時，L媽突然左搵右搵，似乎唔見左重要野．佢話度度都搵過，始終都搵唔到．L見狀，拔刀相助，一拔即搵到！在搵野這方面，自問比L更強，但是都會有時老貓燒鬚．這是我經多年尋找失物所累積的秘決：1. 請倡．第三者的角度比起自己更清晰．因為他/她...2. no assumption. 當你以為唔會係果度時，你視野已經模糊了．3. obviously, start from the obvious.4. then, work from the place you last saw it, towards the place you realize you lost it. 我認為第二點是最重要的一點．第二點其實同第三第四點有矛盾．何謂obvious? Is this the last place I saw it? 這些都會有　assumption　的成份．

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從小就不喜歡見人吸煙，又冇型，又冇衞生，又不健康，又影響其他人．在溫哥華，近幾年似乎是少了人吸煙．我記得２年前回港，街上有人吸煙，但不算太多．但今次返香港，可能多了推SaSa出街，觸覺敏銳了，似乎多了很多人吸煙，特別是多了很多女人吸煙．我並不是性別歧視，但我覺得女人吸煙，更加不好看，印象分即時跌到零．不知是否因最近金融風暴，多了人無覺好瞓，所以要多支煙提神．

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這次返香港是同外父外母返，而且是同外父外母一齊住．這是結婚後第一次同外父外母住．在未返香港前，心已經憂慮因著對SaSa照顧的方法不同而會沉不住氣，說出不大禮貌的話．可能心理已有預備，而且讓自己多些let go，並且他們在溫哥華開始明白同同意我地照顧SaSa照顧的方法，所以在這三數天中，並沒有任何衝突．但是．．．在同樣短短三數天中，我媽媽已差些令我沉不住氣好幾次，亦令SaSa因著要照爸媽的意思，不是「麻麻」的意思而大哭了幾次．幸而，我不喜歡未經大腦既說話說出來，否則後果嚴重．．．父母始終都覺得自己既孩子未長大，仍然是雖要他們的指點，他們的照顧．覺得自己的方法是最好的，沒有錯的．孩子的方法永遠是有錯處．

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最近兩次返香港都係在十月天。心想：香港咁熱（十月都有30度），應該還有很多短袖衫買。但我發覺，商場裏的舖頭已經換了季，大部份都是長袖衫和大褸，只有少量的短袖衫。心又想：香港咁熱，邊度有人買長袖衫和大褸？香港凍既日子，就好似溫哥華有30度既日子，少之又少。心再想：唔係喎，香港冷氣咁勁，怪唔之得要著長袖衫。正所謂人造的天氣，就會有人造的商機。冷氣令到出面氣溫更熱，裏面的冷氣就將被調至更高。

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五點幾，起了身，做乜好？等天光！終於等到了。七時出門食點心！

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No implications ... just found these cute pics of them while sorting out the photos.

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SaSa語言領悟能力很強，佢能夠將一句我地對佢講既話，不只照說一遍，還將相反既意思說一次．有時候，她只是照字搬字，相反出來既句子似是又似非．例如：爸爸：睇埋Dora就要熄電視．SaSa：我要睇晒佢．爸爸：電視無得話睇晒果喎．有排先睇得完．SaSa：電視有排先睇得完，電視無排先睇唔完呀？爸爸：．．．係呀．聽落似乎唔對勁．但若用英文照譯，似乎個意思都無錯：TV will take us a long time to finish watching. If there's no time, we will never finish watching.

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SaSa　雖然個子矮小、動靜較斯文、說話高音，但膽色不比相若年紀的小朋友少．父母唯有揾辦法增高自己的「心血」．

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About a week ago, Elisha is part of a wedding ... of course not as a bride (which I hope is more than 25 years from now) ... but her first time as a flower girl:It's good that she walked in with her friends, Jeffery. And it's also good that not many strangers were staring at her. And it's also good that I had a different colour ballon at my hand to attract her (if you watch the video carefully,

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很久沒有要離開一個差不多每天都去的地方，向那地方說再見．對上一次，已經是九年前 - 向 UBC 說再見．今天是 SaSa 在 Grace Family Daycare 的最後一天，明天她就去新的地方開始「上學」．雖然在 Daycare 只是短短差不多兩年的時間，但這兩年對於 SaSa 既成長有著很多很好的影響．感謝神在當初我們為 SaSa 尋找 Daycare 的時候，讓我們能夠接觸到 Auntie Grace，亦讓她能有一個空位給與 SaSa；感謝 Uncle Daniel & Auntie Grace 對 SaSa 的悉心照顧及教導；感謝 Auntie Pat 教了 SaSa 很多很多的英文及兒歌；感謝 SaSa 又愛又恨既 Best friend - Priscilla 每天的熱情招呼．感謝其他小朋友與 SaSa 一起玩耍、一起吃飯、一起唱歌．每次想起今天要離開，心裏總是很不捨得．

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SaSa最近兩個月學識了講「我要」：「我要呢樣．．．」 、「我要果樣．．．」、「我要咁咁咁．．．」．有時為了得著一樣野，不願聽父母所勸，口中不計較要赴湯蹈火，為要得著那樣野．爸爸：唔好企凳凳．SaSa：我要企凳凳．爸爸：企凳凳會好易跌落黎．SaSa：我要跌落黎．爸爸：跌落黎會好痛．SaSa：我要好痛．爸爸：痛痛會流血過喎．SaSa：我要流血．爸爸：流血就冇得玩架喎．SaSa：我要冇得玩．爸爸：流血就要係床床到訓覺休息喎．SaSa凝視著爸爸一陣，似乎想通了，為了要企凳凳，而會冇得玩同要訓覺，似乎都是不值得．終於坐番落黎．其實，我地大人有時都好似SaSa咁，為了得著一樣東西、一件事、一個結果或一個認同，我地都會借左聾耳陳既耳，任何既勸阻、任何既解釋、任何既警告，都當耳邊風．就算係聽了入腦，有些好似小朋友如SaSa咁一概不理，手損腳爛都不要緊，最緊要係得到；但有好多時，

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人生就是一個循環，有生，有死，有病，有不同階段的開始．當在教會成長，所結伴的朋友對與自己年紀相若，就更能體驗這個循環，這些階段．曾經何時，所參加的派對都是自己或朋友的生日派對；在大約九年前，所參加的典禮都是自己或朋友的畢業典禮；在大約七年前，所參加的儀式及宴會都是自己或朋友的結婚儀式及宴會；在大約五年前，自己或朋友的祖父母開始續一離世，所參加的儀式漸多是喪禮．在大約三年前，自己或朋友開始製造下一代，所參加的派對已全是小朋友的生日派對．在大約一年前，自己或朋友父母的身體開始出現大毛病，醫院已不再是陌生的地方．再過不多久，自己或朋友的身體亦開始出現小毛病．．．轉眼間，又是另一個循環，所參加的派對都是自己或朋友的退休派對；所參加的典禮都是自己或朋友兒女的畢業典禮；所參加的宴會都是自己或朋友兒女的結婚宴會；所參加的儀式都是自己或朋友父母的喪禮；．．．

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這是我剛在團契中的分享:當大家讀挪亞建造方舟既故事時，有什麼感想？神既懲罰？神既帶領？挪亞既信服？神既祝福？大家有冇用過一個親情同愛情故事既角度去思想呢個故事？係要進入方舟既時候，動物係一對一對既進入．從一個角度去解釋，因為要繁殖下一代．但從另一個角度去諗，係危難迫近既時候，佢地係彼此係對方既身邊扶持，永不相離，一同渡過危難．正如挪亞既妻子同家人，係呢個荒謬既情況、邪惡既世界中、眾人不信既目光底下，仍然相信神、相信挪亞所造既一切都係出於神．佢地默默支持挪亞，與他一同進入方舟，一同渡過危難．默解我突然分享挪亞建造方舟既故事？因為我最近有機會睇Evan Almighty呢一齣戲．戲中主角Evan係一個新上任既美國政府國會議員．佢正打算實現佢對選民所立下既承諾　－　改變呢個世界．有一日神化身成人，要Evan建造一隻方舟去改變呢個世界．由於佢一直忙於選舉同新工作上，佢忽略了妻子同家人．

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早陣子，爸爸與SaSa在食晚飯．．．爸爸：快D食啦．SaSa 左嚀右嚀，始終不肯張開嘴．爸爸面露不愉．．．SaSa 見勢色唔對：Sorry，爸爸．爸爸：好啦，咁快D食喇．SaSa 仍然是左嚀右嚀．爸爸再次面露不愉：SaSa，Sorry 冇用架！SaSa 疑惑地：Sorry 冇用架？爸爸：係呀，只係識講 Sorry 冇用架！SaSa 像似明白地：Sorry 冇用架？！爸爸：Sorry 都要講，但要改過先得架！SaSa 還是不明白：Sorry 冇用架？爸爸不厭其煩地：Sorry 都要講，但要做番啱先得架！SaSa 終於張開口食了一啖飯．

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失去了金錢，可以重新賺取；失去了工作，可以重新尋找；失去了家園，可以重新建做；失去了生命，就不能再重新活一次．誰沒有經歷過死亡的臨近？我們幸存活下來，就好好活下去；我們得著永生，就好好用這生彰主榮耀．

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It's been 3 months since I posted new photos of E here. She is now almost 2 years and 3 months old. So far, she's not very "terrible" -- but has a strong mind and "opinion". She says "no" when she doesn't like it, and she sometimes refuses to obey our commands. She sometimes even "commands" us what to do, or what not to do, or how to play with her. She sometimes whine if she does not get what

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曾幾何時，香港有一位著名打Band的歌手在其一首歌作了以下的歌詞：今天我 寒夜裡看雪飄過 懷著冷卻了的心窩飄遠方 風雨裡追趕 霧裡分不清影蹤 天空海闊 你與我 可會變 (誰沒在變) 多少次 迎著冷眼與嘲笑 從沒有放棄過心中的理想 一剎那恍惚 若有所失的感覺 不知不覺已變淡 心裡愛 (誰明白我) 原諒我這一生不羈放縱愛自由 也會怕有一天會跌倒 背棄了理想 誰人都可以 那會怕有一天只你共我 若你認識這位歌手，你就會明白歌詞箇中的背景及意義，亦會被歌詞所感動．他熱愛音樂同打Band．在初期，他常被冷眼同嘲笑，因為香港人認為打Band是冇出色．但他並沒有放棄理想．到80年代中期，香港開始興始打Band，他的Band從此被賞識，甚至嬴取了不少獎項．可惜因一此意外，他英年早逝．當我最近在網上再次睇到他同他的Band唱這首歌的片段，我不感被歌聲及歌詞所感動．當我再留意歌詞時，

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